The Projector Design is very quick to recognize other people and the overall dynamics of their situation. This power of recognition is a remarkable gift, which comes to you as an entirely normal part of every day. It may not seem that special, but it is.

The Channels in the Projector Design are not connected to the Sacral Center, nor do they carry energy to the Throat to Manifest, and therefore, are not burdened with this kind of energy distribution. You have a remarkable free intelligence that perceives people, places, and situations with precision and speed. Hence, you arrive early with these perceptions and understanding already in hand, nearly every time. You can see the dilemmas, overlooked details, and the need for planning and consistency in other people’s lives very rapidly. The question is “how do you communicate these perceptions and insights to others effectively at truly opportune times?”

With such sharp perceptions and often wanting to help, you will benefit greatly by extending the period of time you spend observing, gathering details, and assessing the receptivity of other people as well. Even after seeing crucial and even life-saving information almost immediately, your strategy is to extend your observations to learn more about others, and to deepen your understanding of what they are going through, how they feel about things, and finally seeing the role you might play in their lives, or not. The situation is in motion and developing. You can assess how others perceive their situation, and what is their attitude and approach to their difficulties.

It is important to realize that there is no simple or easy way to guide other people. No matter how small an essential detail or how small a correction may seem to you, there is no ‘little thing,’ that will set other people’s lives on the right track. If people do want help and guidance, it is likely to be a complicated and deeply involved process. Your asking further questions about your perceptions is therefore of paramount importance. Are they aware of the opportunities and limitations that they face? Are they aware of their struggles? Maybe they are not in distress and already have all the support and insight that they need.

It is important for you to acknowledge and fully realize the value of your perceptions that come so easily to you. Self-validating these insights is vitally important for your own well-being. This self-care deepens your empathy for both yourself and others. It also makes the potential opening to communicate your perceptions to others more likely, and even more valuable. You are designed to be a guide, but centering within yourself is primary. In this sense, other people can be a huge distraction. This is understandable because you seem to see so much that other people are overlooking, but your insights and perceptions belong to you.

Being a successful guide is a delicate process, which requires great tact and timing as well as a huge amount of patience for other people to reach their own conclusions, even when the door is open for you to help. When you recognize and value your own gifts thoroughly and refine your timing, other people will recognize them, too. This is a golden key, to recognize your own value and sovereignty in this ongoing situation. This self-regard is a big step, so it is okay to take the time to rest while you value yourself.

As you observe others, your patience and support earn an important kind of trust and appreciation. This is the same kind of trust and value you have found in yourself. It is not surprising that respect for the process will lead to a request for assistance. This invitation is your moment because what you have to offer can then be shared whole and complete. An invitation is an indication that a person is ready to make progress. It is truly remarkable how helpful you can be, but it is also important to realize there are still never any ‘small things.’ Most often, people need a great deal of assistance, and perhaps over a long period of time. You can see a lot ahead of time, but it is your Authority which will inform you whether to accept invitations or not.

As an example, if you have a Splenic Authority, you may be able to help with health and wellbeing, or even survival. It is essential to realize that it is your Authority which will recognize the invitations. This has very little to do with whether something is a good idea.

An emotional Authority might be able to help with emotional difficulties or relationships. Your Authority will know, and your Strategy will work out the timing, based on recognition, appreciation of your presence, and finally, an invitation to do what you do best.

Such tact earns great appreciation, and thus you can see how you can build momentum and success as an advisor with this strategy of mutual appreciation and patience. This extended observation and appreciation for the subtlety and timing of other people’s process is like magic. We call this: the ‘waiting Strategy of the Projector Type.’ Waiting is not wasting your time; you are satisfying your own nearly limitless curiosity and allowing the situation to reveal itself. You are laying the groundwork for perfect timing relative to other people’s process and to be ready for when that time arrives. You can also see that some people will never ask for help, or even want it, or do anything with it when they get it, but others will. You can discern these nuances as well in the process of accepting invitations. Invitations are everywhere.

It is a question of readiness and timing, even of the best intentions. Of course, one needs to learn through success and failure. For you as a Projector, some of these learning experiences can be very harsh and embittering. This is understandable, and it is also important to release such experiences, which is not easy, because sometimes our fellow humans can be very mean and unappreciative. This is why your gift of recognition is best served in a sequence – first of returned recognition, then appreciation for your patience, and then an invitation.

Again, the guidance that people need can be extensive. It is important that they are also willing to help themselves; otherwise, assisting them can and will exhaust you. Your even being aware of their difficulties, when they do not want to act on their own behalf, can also be draining. If others are aware of the challenges they face and are close to truly asking for assistance, that implies they are ready to help themselves.

Sometimes, it is necessary to speak up or intervene, even when it is uncomfortable and unpopular. All of these things can be part of a Projector’s life to the extreme. However, it can be seen by others as an interruption or tactless. It can lead to a misunderstanding of your motives and rejection, and be embittering in the extreme, but might be the price you feel you need to pay to save lives, prevent abuse, or who knows what. How could others reject life-saving advice that was so well-intentioned? Well, they can and they do, but life also must go on. For your own sake, it is important to release the pressure from all these experiences as they pass. In short, the life of a Projector can be very intense.

Above all, giving out valuable information in little, disconnected bits can be extremely stressful for you. An invitation to assist is a sure sign that someone wants help. Plus, the directness of an invitation can give your Authority more traction to evaluate whether you are the right Projector to help. Having a referral list is not a bad idea. There are a lot of people out there who apparently, all too clearly, need saving.

Sometimes a quick insight can be extremely helpful and well-received if the timing is appropriate. Recognition, appreciation, and invitation, especially in that order, allows your helping intentions to come out whole and complete, with the people who need you specifically. What a relief!

Let’s face it, helping others is a lot of work, and appreciation is the only factor that can truly pay the wages for your work. The Projector’s life lends a whole new meaning to the expression ‘Timing is everything,’ because for you, it truly is everything.

Your process can be two-fold, possibly including getting over past rejection, which is so necessary to being patient. Bitterness can make patience hard to come by, and impatience can lead to further rejection. The stakes of that cycle are very high, but the strategy of waiting, as described here, works miracles. It does not take long to cultivate an atmosphere of acceptance. It is part of your Strategy. Keep in mind that everyone is unique and hence different. We often assume we know people before we actually do. To help people along their path, it needs to be their path, their Authority, one step at a time. Small acts of kindness on your part can lead to a lifetime of giving and receiving well-deserved rewards.

Invitations are not a blank slate, even if they are a sure sign that another person is ready. Ready for what? To survive and be healthy? To grow and develop? To see a higher path? There is no help to give without your Authority Center, which knows what you can give and when. It warns you of blind allies and false cries for help, or projections that you can help in ways you can’t or don’t want to. Invitations can be very subtle, convoluted, complex, and even deceptive, so you need to rely on your remarkable ability to recognize them when they arrive, and deal with them through your Authority. Don’t jump ahead of yourself, and more importantly, don’t jump ahead of others. When the advice is asked for, the path opens at the right time. If your Authority can see their Authority asking, then the sky is the limit.

To be continued…

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